difficult to get married and those who get married
but after a short time they are sent away by their
husband are ladies who think of themselves as
beautiful?
They feel too big and even pretend to be what
they are not. It's complicated! Read this exposé...
Have you heard women complain about that
there are no serious men to marry these days?
According to these women, who are often in their
late 20s and 30s, men just want to date - not to
settle down.
But these ladies fail to understand is that real
men are very particular when it comes to
choosing someone for a serious relationship that
could possibly lead to marriage.
A woman can be beautiful, intelligent and
ambitious, but all these good virtues can be
nullified by one or two negative traits. The
following are some of the traits affecting such
ladies:
1) The 'Socialite mentality'
The 'socialite mentality' is a disease that seems to
have afflicted most 20-something year old ladies.
Signs of this malady are manifested by sudden
realization that they are the 'hottest' in their area.
The infected wear skimpy clothes, and capture
their 'amazing' outfits on android phone and
proceed to post these pictures on social media for
attention.
Ladies, if you want to capture attention and earn
the respect of people, go the Lupita Nyon'go
way. Explore your talents, develop your ideas and
work relentlessly until you break a record. Then
the men leading equally successful lives will come
for you and have you for keeps.
2) Anti-family
Any responsible man holds his family with highest
regard. He will go out of his way to create time for
his parents and take very good care of them at all
cost. Before considering a lady for a serious
relationship, a man will first try to ascertain her
view towards family.
If she disrespects her parents, lives oblivious of
her siblings and talk down on people then she is
considered anti-family. In the guy's mind the lady
will make a poor wife..just play with her and move
on.
There is also a crop of ladies who are so close to
their fathers/mothers yet raise ruckus whenever
the guy wants to spend some quality time with
his family, especially his mother. Trying to
compete with a guy's mother for his attention is a
crazy idea.
3) Lack of ambition
If you wish to have a guy consider you for
marriage, then you should at least get focused
with your life. Get your priorities straight, have
ambitions, work towards achieving your goals and
take your studies or job seriously. If all your
'future plans' happen to be on where the next
coolest party is then don't expect any guy to take
you seriously.
Practice moderation, striving to be responsible
and industrious. Every man wants the assurance
that the lady he is getting hitched to is
hardworking so she can effectively run things
when he's not around.
4) Extreme materialism
Since the days of the cave men, women only
mate with those who can provide and protect
their families. However, it's totally wrong to stick
with a guy just because he can afford to sustain
your expensive lifestyle only to disappear when
his cash flow recedes.
It's easy to spot a gold-digger. All she wants to do
is hang out in fancy places, buy new cloths,
shoes, phones, etc., etc. When you are together,
you never get to have any meaningful
conversations.
Once a guy realizes you are for his possessions, he
re-strategizes. You become his trophy girlfriend.
He may buy you a nice dress and shoe, maybe
phone, but it ends at that. You can't be a wife.
5) False sense of importance
Such a lady has a bloated ego and false sense of
importance. She thinks she is doing a guy a favor
by being with him. He is, therefore, expected to
be grateful that he should provide whenever she
asks.
Guys, please it's rather draining to date a lady
who is convinced you were sorely created to serve
her.
She will expect you to drop all your plans and
run to her side whenever she wants. Since she
believes that she can get any man on the planet,
whenever you fight she is inclined to issue
ultimatums.
A guy who wants to settle down with a lady that
will bring peace into his life should go for
someone who is humble. She should be able to
associate well with you, whether you spend on
her that day on not.
6) Selfishness
When a lady is selfish a real man will know; she
doesn't care how much you earn and how much
you have to work to earn that money. All she's
concerned about is buy this for me, buy that for
me. Such a lady can never be a good wife. Even if
she's dating a married man he will soon run away
from her.
Ladies, over to you. Live right if you want the
right man to take you serious and keep you as a
wife.
- author/written by andor baresi
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