Dear malabress readers; can you fall in love with your hubby later?

From a female malabress reader



There's this fellow that wants to marry me

but I am not in love with him, I do not

even find him attractive but he's a catch,

asin he has a good job, he's well behaved

and he really loves me. My family and

friends say I should accept his proposal,

that love will come later. If I don't feel

anything special for him now, will it come

after I marry him? I don't want to be in

loveless marriage so I am wary of entering

this union. Please advice